I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become
Definitions are important. Life is full of experiences. Many of them are successful endeavors and many are utter failures. It seems we choose to dwell on the disappointments. Our failures and the negativity we often associate with them are what we remember. We let them define us.
But we choose to do that. If we stay in the positive and enjoy the success and embrace the failures, we are healthier. If we fail, we tried. That is positive. If we failed, we had the opportunity to learn and grow. This is a success. We have to learn from our failures. Imagine, if a child stopped trying when it failed at its first attempt to walk. Where would that child be if they let that failure define them.
Please make your own definition. Define yourself. Make the decision to become what you choose.
You can do it.
I believe in you!