We go through life looking for meaning, looking for what we were meant to do. I cannot tell you how many times, I have asked, “Why?” So many, that someone convinced me to stop asking why, because the why for the action did not really matter. It is the how.
Once we find our why, then we look for a how. I was looking at it backwards I wanted to know why. Once we make a decision about what we want to do, it is now about how.
You why determines what you do. You can bear the how to get to your why.